Expatriation
To let go is the hardest part. Especially when your mind doesn’t want to leave but the destiny necessitated you to do so. It is like having an exile from your country land to navigate to a realm where you will start your life all over again. Upon stepping away, you can’t withstand not to look back. Then your tears will spontaneously stream from your puffy eyes and relish the happy moments that you spent. But kismet mandates us to move forward. It may be inflicting in your heart to depart but you have to go and learn. Life isn’t always sweetness. Sometimes, we have to face its counterpart, which is bitterness. Learning does not only take place inside the classroom but also with the bruises that we got from the outer dimension of reality.
When it comes to love, people do have diverse opinions. Commonly, people would advise you to go on and never loosen your grip to someone whom you love so much. In that scenario, people become cynical. Isn’t love a selfless act? not a selfish deed? In a positive manner, holding on means fighting for someone. To fight and show valor are greatness. But how long do you have to clutch? How long could you stand the pain? Sometimes compelling your self to someone is a bad idea. When we love, we usually sacrifice all the things that we have. Sometimes, we even lower our ego and leave nothing to our self. Isn’t it ironic that we could love others up to the extent of what we can and yet we can’t even spare our selves a little love? It’s a sort of foolishness.
Sometimes, letting go of someone we love isn’t cowardice. It is a mightiest thing that a person could do for he could bear the pain of loosing the one he loves. We may be scathed for executing a very hard decision but we must be happy for the person whom we set free. It is like taking care of a little plant. No matter how assiduous we are in giving the thing that it needs just to live, still we have to let it alone for it to grow and glow. Where it could dance in the rhythm of the zephyr. Where the loving heat of the sunlight could caress it. Where the rainwater could kiss it. To love is to sacrifice.
When we love, we are only after to the happiness of the person whom we dedicate our passion. If we sense that we do not deserve the love that he is catering to us, then it’s time for us to think deeply. Sometimes we have to let go a person because we love him so much. Surrendering doesn’t mean that you gave up your love for him but an indication tat you don’t want to hurt the person anymore. He may not understand your real reason, but God knows that you only want him to feel better.
You can cry if you want but never defy loosing your confidence. Life is a good mentor and a learning experience. In every moment that transpires in our life, we learn something. Learning may take several failures for us to master life’s test. At the end, it is us who will make a choice. It is either to go on with our fight or to put your hands up. Moreover, this world entails a lot of mysteries and surprises. Letting go doesn’t cease your happiness but and insignia that another day is yet to be faced. Live on and take the risk. You still have to trek a long road.
